Thursday, March 19, 2015

10th Years Wedding Anniversary



It was our 10th years wedding anniversary last week.

Wow - is it a decade already?

My husband, me, and my mother celebrated it in Petra House Restaurant - a Mediterranean cuisine for this occasion.  Nothing fancy, just simple down-to-earth get-together.  And the food were definitely yummy! :)

So what this 10 years journey means for me?  I truly feel blessed and lucky to have a husband as my dearest one.  Why?

1. He is patient.
2. He is funny.
3. He cares.
4. He fixed broken things.
5. He is peaceful.
6. He is simple.
7. He is smart.
8. He is strong.
9. He is handsome.
10. He loves me!

I love my husband just the way he is, and I'm happy that he accepts me just the way I am.  What a lovely marriage it is to be in! ♥

Monday, March 16, 2015

"Don't Worry, Be Happy"



Does being happy means to laugh all the time?  To smile all the time?

I think not.

I think... being happy is more likely means "being content".  It doesn't mean that we should smile, giggle, and laugh all the time like some silly person.  But be content - with what you had, have, and probably don't have - is a skill that one can try to develop anytime.  It's not something that you born with, but something that you practice day by day.

It is easy to find reason to not be happy and content.  But I think we should see the bigger picture.  It would be nice indeed to have everything and experience all the things that our heart desires, but the reality is it's nearly impossible to hit everything in the checklist.  Why?  Because as human, we are yearning for more, better, and progressive situation in life.

But be content while you're not having everything and perhaps even experiencing challenges - now that I called that mastery.  Understanding that life may not be perfect but everything still going upwards, perhaps not now but eventually.

Suddenly I just got a song stuck in my head while writing this blog: "Don't Worry, Be Happy".

Have a good day! :)

Saturday, March 07, 2015

Dining : In or Out?



What our family did (and still do) to be one step closer for financial independence, is discontinue dining out in restaurants.  We love going to restaurants to celebrate special occasions or just to spend our weekend in the norm.  Or just a random passing up unfamiliar territory and have that sudden craving of trying out something new.  It’s a family tradition since I was a little girl.  We love trying out new restaurants, new themes, new flavors, and spending quality time together.  However, with a bigger goal in line to manage our finances wisely, and thinking ahead of our future, my family and I revisit our budget, and decide to take a proactive approach on taking control of our money back.  After all, we don’t want to outlive our money and have nothing in the future retirement days.  That would be a bleak future!

At first, it was difficult to break the old habit of not going out to restaurants.  But we've made a commitment and would love to see it through.  We start using kitchen again to cook our meals.  We utilize fresh ingredients from our local produce markets and get innovative with alternating recipes.  We use whatever available on the market that day.  My family enjoy the time we spend together both in the kitchen and at the dining table. 

Soon, we see a dramatic changes in our finances.  It’s a huge saving for our family by converting restaurants menus with home cook dishes.  A typical restaurant bill for a family of three will cost you average of $50, and obviously you have to add tax and gratuity in every occasion.  While the expenses of producing the similar dishes are not as nearly as half the cost.  Okay, perhaps we don’t have a commercial stove or top-notch range, but you don’t really need the most superior culinary items for just an everyday meal.  Any cooking utensils you have will be enough.  The most expensive ingredients you’ll need to buy is meat, and $5-$10 can stretch your budget along the way.  Once in a while there might be a seafood sale and you can get $9.99 for a pound of fresh salmon, which feed for family of three.  Just add fragrant jasmine rice or roasted potatoes on the side, and you can call it a day!  This doesn't cost you as much as dining out in your local fine dining establishments, which will charge you at least $5 or more for just a salad bowl.

And don't forget, some meals can be extended as the next day leftovers and taste even better.  A pan of lasagna can last for a while, who can really eat all of them in a day?

The best thing about cutting dining out, is that you actually can explore unlimited version of producing meals that will fit your budget and your mood of the day.  You can go Indian, Chinese, Italian, any time.  In the long run, making your own homemade meals are healthier (as you know exactly what you put in each dishes) and friendlier for your wallet.  In the last few months our family saved around $400-$500 a month by not going to any restaurants at all.  What a saving!  It was a relief to see this new habit comes to a fruition.  It was a success we accomplished as a family!

Dining out now is just another luxury, no longer a ritual weekly habit. :)

Sunday, March 01, 2015

Red Cliff




One of the best movie I've ever seen is... Red Cliff.  Not going into details of the story here, as this Wikipedia link will reveal more info, but I'd like to share why I felt this movie is one of my favorites.

1.  The story line was unexpected, full of twist and plots.  Unpredictable - which is an indicator of a great movie.  Make us glued to the screen.

2. Beautifully arranged.  The battle scene are not the same as those typical war movies.  There are tensions and previous scenes which build up enough pressure leading to the climax.  Especially the last battle in the night time.  Brilliant!

3.  Mystical.  This movie takes you to summer of year 208 AD.  Imagine that.  Year 208!  And China is already full of war masterminds and strategists and politics advisers.  History lessons became alive and exciting!

4.  The casts played important roles and each of them are so deep into the character.  Well, Tony Leung and Takeshi Kaneshiro alone already a household name for Chinese/Mandarin movies.  The result?  Powerful on-screen partnership.

John Woo made a fantastic, top-notch, over-the-top movie, and I would like to see it over & over again.  I wish and hope there are more new movies like this one! ♥