Saturday, May 11, 2019

Wise People



Why wise people don't talk a lot?

Because:
  1. They belong to different and deeper wavelength of thinking.
  2. Wise people choose their audience.  Chose their subject & time to speak
  3. They do not like idle talking - weather, politics, sports = are often the endless, directionless topics. They want to converse on their chosen topics with whom they can sure of engaging in higher planes of discussion
  4. Wise people often seen to be slow to action. They take time to react but definitely NOT passive but very active people.
  5. Wise people does discuss but often in discussions giving suggestions or advice.
  6. Wise people are in the category of people who are 25 steps ahead of general people in that mental spectrum.
  7. It is not that wise people do not talk much. I have met many who do. However, what I have noticed is that - they choose to remain silent as they allow others to talk - especially when they are in public. Or in front of others - as they prefer listening to others and giving others a chance to speak or express themselves.
    They are very careful and particular whom they hang around with. So given that they only surround themselves with whom they feel close to - the fact that they love and care about them - they allow them to speak and express themselves - while they stay silent.
    However, when its time to talk - they do. Only when required.
  8. They follow the theory of observing well and understanding what's going around them. If they find the people around them are naturally dumb then they don't waste their time and knowledge with them and tend to be silent and observant.
    Its very important to learn which arguments are worth fighting. They speak only when they have to.
  9. Wise people appreciate to listen to what others around them have to say and they make conclusions from what they have heard. 

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